Friday, November 02, 2007

My Mak Som

Listening to sad song "Luluh:Samsons" prompts me to write about my late auntie, Mak Som. (smilling - right pix in blue baju kurung with my mom). I had a late working Thursday that day. Mr Bukit, likes to do things at the spur of moment. Had a meeting with some clients and were laughing away when the meeting ended at 7.45 pm. I eagerly pack my stuff to go back when i received a call from my mom:

Mummy : Nurul tgh buat apa? *sobbing*
Me : Tgh nak balik. Mak ok ke?
Mummy : *Crying* Mak Som dah tada..
Me : Innalillah.
Mummy : Balik rumah cepat. Kemas barang. Pegi spore malam ni dgn ayah.

Mak Som paased away on a Friday nite (khamis mlm jumaat) which in Islam is considered as a Blessed day for a Muslim to depart from the world. It's a blessing for her and the whole family. It was always her wish to pass away on Friday nite similar like my my late Nenek, who always without fail recite her doa before going to bed, praying that God will take her life away on the Blessed nite. God granted her wish.

I remembered that last Raya 06, we went to Mak Som's house and we took a lot of pictures. My bro even captured a video scene between Mak Som and My Mummy gossiping away. We never did that before. Never at her house but who's to know that THAT was the last time for all of us. And during the months before she was bed ridden, she would always ask me - "Nurul bile nak kawin ni?? Cepat la kawin, nanti Mak Som tak sempat nak nengok tau." Not once, not twice, but she would say that everytime we met and guess she've already had the feeling she'll be leaving us soon. I have yet to introduce my Munchkin to Mak Som :( I'm sure she would definetly love Munchkin and she would hv tease him a lot as she likes to joke around. She refers to me as Orang Johor. So imagine, if come during Raya, she would call out loud, "Haaaa, here's our Orang Johor dah sampai." I would normally keep my head low n be embarass when she does that - everyone will be looking around for the 'Orang Johor' . I will miss that a lotttt now :(

Another famous trait of Mak Som is that she's a very caring person. She cares more about ppl around her than she cares about herself. I would always remember that once, when my parents was away for Umrah. She would call me everyday to find out my condition. That time i was studying in uni and we just lost my late brother Rizal. Off all my aunties, shes the only one who understands that we were mourning that time and I was really sad because my parents were not around and yet, she made the effort to call tiredlessly everyday and i will always cherish that Mak Som.
This posting is dedicated to you Mak Som. May u rest in peace, in the Garden of Eden. I know u'll be very happy there. InsyAllah. Amin.

ainie expressed herself at 3:31 PM



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